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My 2 yo is killing my relationship with my H

5 replies

angelinaj · 07/08/2006 20:30

We love her to bits but she is going through the t 2ws at the mo and it is causing terrible rows as we have a diff of opp and when we try to resolve these things. Another tantrum or another bad night and we are at eachothers throats. I really think our marriage will die fast soon. We used to be so close before she was born. I know i sound like i am bitter towards her but i am not. She is my life and always will be, but my marriage is suffering

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nicnack2 · 07/08/2006 20:33

i am sometimes at odds with dh re the children. we try and discuss how we are going to do it, but ultimately its the parent who has the 'control' at the time that deals with any probs.

PanicPants · 07/08/2006 20:33

How do your views differ? Can you make time to talk to each other without your dd?

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angelinaj · 07/08/2006 20:35

Yeah we talk and then things happen and it all goes out the window. Good intentions and all. He called me a c...t the other night in temper i was horrified

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nicnack2 · 07/08/2006 20:40

mmmm c--t is not the nicest of temper induced indearment

PanicPants · 07/08/2006 20:43

Oh dear, is it possible for the 2 of you to go away by yourselves without dd, to see if there is a relationship worth saving?

Remember your both stressed out atm, and your both going to say things you don't mean.

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