Where do you go if you want to leave?

[macystacy]

I basically can't stand my husband most days, he is miserable and grumpy, does fuck all with the kids, looks miserable about doing anything, we have nothing in common, sex life is dire (always has been really). The only thing we do have is lots of money of which I am constantly reminded, everything comes back to him earning money.

I used to have a well paid job till I had the kids now after 6 years out of the work force I am lacking any confidence plus I have no family or assistance of any kind.

I am a SAHM so have no income so when I just can't stand it anymore, where do I go? I don't have any family or anywhere to go and I doubt he would leave the house?

You file for divorce, then get a court order forcing him to sell the house, then you take your equity and put that towards your own home or if its not enough.

Or you can just leave and rent somewhere

You get an appointment with a solicitor.

And check out which benefits you'd be entitled to.

Do you have any savings? If you have enough for a deposit and six months rent in advance you should be able to find somewhere to rent.

Can you get access to joint account?