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ExP telling me how much sex he's having....had to laugh

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louby44 · 05/02/2014 16:48

...'cause I don't know when all this sex is happening. He's been here for the past 2 weekends, maybe it's in his half hour lunch break or even in his head! He must have a quick shag between when he finishes work and when he gets in at 8pm in between his girlfriend putting her 4 yr old to bed!

I have 2 more nights & 1 more day before he moves out and it cannot come fast enough. Friday is the start of the rest of my life!

He has major issues and I consider myself to have had a lucky escape. He has 2 failed marriages and goodness knows how many failed relationships behind him. And the one common denominator is him. I feel he needs to take a good look at himself and how he behaves and reacts to women and the subsequent (inevitable) breakdown of all of these relationships.

There is definite pattern here where the relationship breaks down, he quickly moves onto another woman and the previous woman is slated, put down and made out to be this evil bitch who has treated him so badly. He never spends anytime as a single person to take stock and consider why he's been rejected again. He doesn't look to himself to see what part he has played, he is innocent according to him.

He is so angry, bitter, nasty and unkind. I thought he was a decent person - he isn't. He has been jealous, moody & possessive towards me and emotionally abused my children, his own children are wary of him and his moods. I've walked round on egg shells for months & months - no more!

I'm looking forward to a more peaceful & stress free life!

OP posts:
louby44 · 07/02/2014 18:01

Cheers, popped the cork at 4.15pm. I bloody deserve it!!

OP posts:
BuzzardBird · 07/02/2014 18:07

Woohoo! Good for you OP. Walsall eh? lovely Grin Enjoy those bubbles Thanks

TemperamentalAroundCorvids · 07/02/2014 18:10
PeterAndresSprayTanner · 07/02/2014 18:45

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louby44 · 07/02/2014 18:59

Can't change the locks, he still owns half the house. But there is no need for him to enter the house, all possessions of his have been removed. The stuff he left behind is now in the garage.

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iamonthepursuitofhappiness · 07/02/2014 22:19

Urgh, my ex did this to me until I pointed out his GF might not appreciate him telling me all the gory details of their sex life plus I didn't have sex with him because he was (is) an alcoholic and, quite frankly, shagging a man whose eyes don't look in the same direction and has parafin breath didn't do it for me shrugs He didn't take that well....

AnyFucker · 07/02/2014 22:22
Deathwatchbeetle · 07/02/2014 23:42

iam - that's brill!!!!!!!

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