Meet the Other Phone. Protection built in.

Meet the Other Phone.
Protection built in.

Buy now

Please or to access all these features

Relationships

Mumsnet has not checked the qualifications of anyone posting here. If you need help urgently or expert advice, please see our domestic violence webguide and/or relationships webguide. Many Mumsnetters experiencing domestic abuse have found this thread helpful: Listen up, everybody

What is my ex BF up to.........he's engaged, pregnant and in touch!

8 replies

starryeyes79 · 01/02/2014 14:31

Hi ladies, just some advice.

My ex boyfriend and I were in a relationship for 13 years and it ended quite nastily. I loved him always but he didn't love me anymore and started hounding an online dating site and met his new girlfriend who he is still with.
He has recently contacted me via facebook and we've started chatting. He's asked me if I'm single, where I'm working, have I got kid. I replied with one word answers and I never asked him any questions. I do know from friends who are friends of his that he is engaged,so why get in touch with me? Throughout our messages he hasn't talked about 'her' or mentioned the word 'we'. The things which raised my eyebrows was the fact he said he wished he was 18 again and he's not into getting married and he was sorry.

I've logged onto an online dating site and found him on there......he is on constantly, I'm sure its not innocent and i know its none of my business. He then sent a very recent message via facebook to say he's going to be daddy. I couldn't congratulate him but i'm annoyed. I want the world to know he's a shark and its hard. Ive not many friends and the ones i do have are related to him so i'm sat talking to the wall for advice. Please advise

OP posts:
RandomMess · 01/02/2014 14:33

I would just block him and get on with your life.

Monetbyhimself · 01/02/2014 14:33

Delete and block. Doing anything else suggests that you are happy to engage with him.

Logg1e · 01/02/2014 14:33

You know why he's in touch. You know what he's up to.

NachoAddict · 01/02/2014 14:35

Agree, delete and block him. Let his girlfriend figure out for herself what a snake he is.

mammadiggingdeep · 01/02/2014 14:45

Nasty piece of work. Delete, block, thank your lucky stars its not you with his baby...

JoinYourPlayfellows · 01/02/2014 15:19

You should be very glad that he's not your problem any more.

1974rach · 01/02/2014 17:15

Why are you wasting your time?

IMHO I don't think you should have responded to him in the first place but that aside you are under no obligation to respond to any future messages. Ignore them, delete them but don't respond to him again.
He has a new partner and a baby on the way and I suspect that if you continue with this contact you're going to find out what he wants....Do you want to put yourself in that position?

WhoNickedMyName · 01/02/2014 17:20

Why did you respond to him in the first place?

Block him on FB, stop stalking him on dating sites (you're right btw, it is none of your business) and thank your lucky stars he's not your problem any more.

New posts on this thread. Refresh page