Opinions on this behaviour please

[SickOfTheBastard]

Name changed for this.
Not so 'D' H went out at 1 o'clock to dentist for routine check up so shouldn't be more than an hour
Knows I've had bad period pain really heavy bleeding I asked him to bring some tampons in and some stuff in for the kids tea as there's not much in and said maybe u cud get DC from school on your home he says ring me and I'll c if I'll b back.
So I ring him round about 2.30 no answer ring 2 more times no answer text no reply so go to get DC myself ring again when I get home no answer so scrape something together for kids tea then he comes in under the influence at 6.45
Says he's been in town by himself and he's been in a bar drinking by himself and he left his phone in the dentist (he had it when he came back)
So I go to put 1 DC to bed and he gets in DC toddler bed and says I'm just getting DC to sleep nicely wtf? Won't let DC to sleep byself and follows us into my room when I put DC in my bed so move DC back to original bed and he eventually fucks off. Now he's went back out to shop and reckons he'll be 20 minutes yeah right!

He's a total dick and it's really, really awful that he was hammered around the kids and interfering with bedtime. That's completely foul.

Wow that's not good, just pants behavior

Is this an out of the blue first time or a regular pattern?

Thanks for the quick replys EirikurNoromaour I laughed at your comment you've got it spot on

Yeah it's regular behaviour he has got better over the years though

Being this drunk around the children would be a big no no for me. Not acceptable one jot.

Doesn't matter if he went drinking by himself, with mates. He has lied about leaving the phone at the dentist. He knew you were feeling rough and needed a bit of support. He chose to go out, get pissed and then show your young dc just what being drunk looks like.

I would be having very serious words once he has sobered up tomorrow. I would wait for the hangover to pass though even if it would be very tempting to read him the riot act when he is feeling his worst. But if you want your views to be heard properly and understood, wait for the drink and hangover is out of his system.

That's not to say though that I wouldn't launch the dc on him tomorrow! Don't fret about him tonight. Get the dc into bed asleep, have a nice bath, watch what you want in the TV and have an early night.

That's better??
You poor thing. That's vile.

What's he bringing to the table?!

I didn't mean that behaviour was better than other times I meant it started happening less and less tbh I think he's got a problem with alcohol he used to drink nearly every night then he'd fuck up big time every so often lowest point probably when our DD was in hospital bad turning up drunk to the hospital or wen DD was in hospital and he was at home looking after other DD and he had his 'mates' in drinking and taking drugs wtf has my life come to with that cunt???