Selfish

[littlewind]

Can I ask people is my husband selfish or is it just me.
We've got a little DS 10 months old. I look after DS and DH doesn't have to do anything with him. I do most of the jobs round the house, but DH will cook some nights. I always get up with DS and at the weekends DH won't sleep in with me because DS is still in our room and he doesn't like getting up to early at the weekend.
Also some weekends he will just go and do his own thing for a few hours.
Or am I just a moaner?

If it doesn't feel fair to you, it's not fair. If you don't believe he's pulling his weight, then that's probably because you're being taken for granted. You're not a moaner but, and this is making you unhappy, please stop pandering to him and start putting your foot down. Suggest this weekend you make plans to go out for the day and leave DS and Dad to enjoy each other's company. And make it a nice long day.... :)

Or is that you want to do things together?

You need to talk...