Have been with dh for 7 years, we are great friends we rarely argue and to all our friends we make the 'perfect' couple.
However, dh seems either unwilling or incapable of communicating on a deeper level, although I feel we have a strong bond there's something missing. There's a lot of affection between us out of the bedroom but in it the sex just doesn't rock my world anymore.
We've not had regular sex in almost a year, we can go 3-4 weeks without and the less we do the less we care but when we do have sex it's the same thing and I am left feeling in truth a bit disappointed.
We've talked about it, ok I've talked he's listened then taken it as a personal criticism which it isn't and I haven't ever said it's his fault it's something we can work on together.
At times I feel so disconnected during sex and I'm not normally like that, everything else in our marriage appears to be great I say appears because if I ask him anything he says how happy he is end and that's then end of conversation.
I am away with my work quite a bit during the year so the times I am at home to me are precious. We often go away for weekends but rarely have sex even though we do have a really great time.
Is it me? Should I just accept he's not a talker and stop analysing or should there be some kind of give on his part?
Sorry for the ramble