loneliness and fantasizing

[Prettylady12]

Why do i feel very low one day, after a good cry, feel a bit better, then breakdown the next day -- this awful divorce thing is killing me. i and sbtx still living under the same roof - sbtx dont want to leave -

I also find myself fantasizing about other males - is this normal. like I am a teenager again having crushes on males.

but i don't want to start anything with anyone, neither have I got any one showing any interest - but these feelings are killing me, i dont want them right now..

i am eating less and crying more also - am i depressed.

its your hormones getting you ready for the breeding scene. don't worry. but don't close men out completely. i did. mercifully, 25 years later, they still want me... but i must have missed out on a lot of fun on the way. don't do that. accept. he moves on. your body is getting ready. your mind will catch up.

I think anyone in your situation would feel like you do, it sounds a hellish situation. He's got to go.

Fantasising is what we do when real life feels unmanageable, or dull, or unhappy. It takes us to a 'better place' where we can be anyone we want and create happiness and the scenario we wish we had. It's very reassuring that you know you don't want another relationship, but you do have to get this man out of your home.

I think if you're asking whether you're depressed you probably are and you should make an appointment to see your GP.

well i rather get this divorce over and done, then get my life back but its taken nearly 2 years and still counting, not even got to decree nisi yet. imagine if it takes longer .. all my emotion etc. well i dont want another baby, i am done with that, so its a no no.