will he be sent down for this?

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He was on trial on the 20th of this month, for breaching a non molestation order.
Unfortunately, i had a mix up with my solicitor, and have had a lot to deal with family wise - i didnt know the date of court and so failed to attend.

Charges were stopped.
Only the non mol is still in place.
I have an email from off yesterday saying "love u". I have reported it, and police are coming to my house after 6.

I am gathering he will be arrested as there is power of arrest attached.

But wondering if he will be sent down since this is the second breach and he has only just done the trial for it.

What a thicko

I hope so.

Yah, AF. Fingers crossed.

Might teach the bastard a lesson!

Although, youd think he would have learned last time

Yah?

Dunno where that came from, but I've gone posh allofasudden!

I doubt he will

Fingers crossed.

Unless the text has your name on it he could just deny it and say it was a mistake.
On the other hand if the police have little else to do he could be arrested,spend the night in the cells and be in the Magistrates Court tomorrow.

The Court will then decide.

Given the history I bloody well hope so, too.

How're you getting along?

The officer has just left. She says that he will be arrested tonight and will be charged.

When he was arrested last time, he admitted it was his email address. He emailed using that same email.

What a plank though. 6 days after the trial.
2 or 3 days after i had the police at his mams house too to tell her to leave me alone!

Im plodding along perfectstorm. The kids are all getting along better and we are settling into single motherhood quite nicely. Thanx for asking

Glad to hear they're still being supportive, and really glad to hear you and the kids are doing well. I've been thinking of you and hoping you were still flourishing, now you're rid of the deadweight.

He really is the stupidest abuser I have ever read about on MN. If it weren't so bloody horrible for you it would be comic.

Good for you

He probably thought you didn't show up because of him.
Surprise!

What happened with the court? Couldn't they postpone it, or just work with the evidence they had?

I'm glad to hear you are all getting on okay.

Stay strong.

What an idiot he is.

Thank you all!

I just got a letter stating the date of the hearing, and how CPS had to inform me that it had been stopped.

I am not even 100% sure what stopped means.
Im assuming that it means the dropped it?

I didnt get any information about what happened other than that?

You'll need to ask your solicitor.

Hopefully, he'll stay away after this arrest.

They couldnt proceed without your evidence so stopped the case but they could start the case up again at some point in the future. You can ask the CPS to review the decision to stop the case, explaining why you didnt attend and stating that you fully support a prosecution and would be happy to give evidence against him.

Victims' Right to Review

Under the Victims' Right to Review (VRR) scheme, victims have a right to seek a review of a CPS decision not to prosecute. The interim VRR guidance, published on 5 June 2013, indicates that victims will be notified of their right to seek a review where a CPS prosecutor decides not to charge or to terminate the criminal proceedings involving that person as a victim. If the victim requests a review of a decision not to prosecute or to terminate proceedings, a different prosecutor will consider the decision afresh and determine whether or not the decision of the original prosecutor was wrong.

The accused should be informed promptly of any decision to reinstitute proceedings.

Thank you very much bogeyface. That helps a lot. Very informative. I understand it now

Well he still hasnt been arrested yet.
Hed actually phoned my solicitor asking about contact with ds.

Hes also spoken to SS saying he knows nothing about this breach.

Glad to help. The problem is that you can have some serious bail breaches and they will be the priority for the police over a 2 word email that he could claim was sent in error.

I think your best bet is to get onto the CPS and see if they will reinstate proceedings.

They wont start it backup again. But there is a chancr they might after this breach if and when i explain my reasons as to why i didnt attend.
The CJS will try and help me get it back up too, only if this new breach goes to trial.

The police have been in touch and said that he got in touch with them. Refusing to inform them of his whereabouts, sayig he wants it on his terms and will go to them at about 5pm. Fucking dick

And his mother has jumped and said it was her who sent the email. So thats the end of that!

The only problem now is hw is wanting to go to the nursery to see him. What am i going to do????

I dont want to take him out again. I dont want him to see him for 5 minutes and then not againm or worse....risk him taking him again!

I cant take this. Its too much!