about 3 years ago,i had an incident with one of our friends partner's. we were at a wedding,and she started to have a go at me saying when she first met me she thought i was a stuck up so & so. (i can't remember our first meeting!) she proceeded to slag me off to my face in front of a couple of friends. she was either very drunk or maybe 'on something' it now transpires!
the next day my dh went to confront her,she couldn't remember the incident, to cut a long story short,she grovelled and i forgave her.
a few months later her partner was sent to prison, i did what any friend would do,looked after her dd,rang her etc....and we were back on friendly terms or so i thought..........
at a recent christening,she made some comment about what was i doing there,and then ignored me the whole time,she hasn't spoke to me since and we went to a wedding last night and it was very uncomfortable,she totally blanked me. she is expecting her second baby on wednesday,so don't want to contfront her at this time, but it was made quite obvious last nite she was bad mouthing me to anyone who would listen! i feel really upset about the whole thing,but dh says i shouldn't be bothered as she's not a very nice person.