When will I stop missing him

[macystacy]

I started on what I realise now is an emotional affair about a year ago now. I was/am unhappily married with 2 very young kids and he got married about 6 months ago (he never ever mentioned a girlfriend let alone about to be married when we met, I found out by accident).

We have not seen each other for 4 months and I have tried to make things better with husband for the children but I can't stop thinking about the OM and missing him like I have never missed anyone before.

I know the relationship was wrong and we can't be friends, nothing physical ever happened so I can't understand why I can't get over this, surely I would be somewhere on the right track after 4 months, can anyone help?

I'm sorry you are feeling this way - but he even tried to lie to you (by trying to hide that he was married) as well as his new wife. I expect you are missing him only because you are not really happy in your relationship. We always think the grass is greener - it's not. 4 months is a very short time when your not happy. Work on your relationship if you can.