Dear Ladies. Advice needed. I split up from my ex partner 2 years ago. It was hard. He was good and bad. Abusive. I didnt know what to do, been posting for help here. I finally left without any support. I took our dd with me. She's now nearly 4 year old. She coped with the brake up ok ish.
I have met a new man since than. He 's wonderful, sensitive, loving and is really ticking all the boxes for me. My daughter likes him. Thats very important. We want to move in together very soon. A bit of a problem is that He's still not divorced - wife making it difficult and long. He has 2 children from that marriage that live with their mother in other country.
Wife skypes him every day asking for money. Then he talks to the toddlers for 2h on skype. When he flies to see the children and take them to his parents to spend time together - sometimes they want mummy to come as well and cry so his wife spends the time with him and the kids - I dont really like it. I'm worried that we will move in together and his wife will be on skype all the time. Also I'm worried that when he goes to children he spends lots of time with her and she is a bit weird to say the least. I dont want to argue with him about her...
My question is do u think I have a point to be irritated or am I being silly?