My sister and my friend are going and when we were having wine last week it seemed like an excellent idea but in the cold light of day, I'm wondering if I should leave it a few months...?
Split with H in October. Bits of EA, porn addiction and no intimacy for a couple of years, plus general shitty behaviour. Last week, me, DS my Dsis and her DD moved into a big house and 2014 is shaping up to be a good one.
H wants to get back together. He has a lot of issues that he is working through in therapy. I have told him it is over for good but because I am weak and I find him hard to deal with have agreed that I will talk to him about us if he sorts out of his issues and demonstrates real change in six months. Which I can't see happening.
He asked if I am dating and I said no, not that it's any of his business, and he reminded me I am still married.
It's not that I want to jump into a relationship, it's just I've been so freaking lonely for so long now. Years really. I just really fancy a good old flirt and chatting, a bit of excitement. I've been chatted up a few recently and because of my situation and because it feels illegal I keep running for the hills.
Would you go? What if it gets back to him? Should I wait until I'm divorced do you think? I've no idea how long that is going to be before it even starts.