Is it time to call it quits!!!

[Jazzi]

My dp and I have been going through some problems and it was really starting to get me down. So I decided to take my 2 ds's away to my parents for a while inorder to give us all a break. I was hoping that I would miss my dp, but haven't, most of the telephone calls end up with one of us putting the phone down - should I take this as a sign to split up from dp??

take as a sign that something needs to chnage whether you work on the relationship or leave is up to you do you think separateing is your best option

I just can't be bothered with him - which is not good!!!

Then it looks like you should quit if you can't be bothered with him?!?! Does he try with you?

No - he was supposed to come and visit at the weekend, but couldn't be bothered. It isn't sounding good is it??

How do your sons fit into all this? Is DP the natural father/has custody rights? Not that this is the only factor to consider in all this, but one worth thinking about - along with the overall impact it may have for them. They might find life improves and is more settled if you split, esp if you are happier. However, it may be more complicated than that. Only you know the workings of your own heart and your own family emotions.
Sorry to hear you are having a hard time xx