My friend confided in me that she found out her Dh had a one night stand. I didn't panic and tell her to throw him out, rather talked about what things were not right in their marriage and how this could be the wake up call they needed. She was also going through a miscarriage at the time.
I suggested that once the shock and anger had worn off, if she wanted to still be married to him, she needed to work out herself what needed to be changed & then talk to him about it.
None of this happened. She has buried her head in the sand. And now she is pregnant. None of our friends know about his cheating and she has clearly brushed it under the carpet.
I am still in shock that she has been so accepting and is clearly sleeping with him again. I am trying to be happy for her but I am so mad at her. She has left him off scot free and he has suffered no consequences to his actions.
I meanwhile am expected to act normal - I have only seen him once and I tried for her sake to act normal but that was when I thought they were both comitted to repairing there marriage.
I know this is none of my business, I know it doesn't directly affect me. It doesn't stop me wanting the very best for my friend though and feeling very disheartened that she is settling for this.