Ok so I posted on here a while back and it helped so much. So here goes. My husband was txting another woman while I was getting treatment for breast cancer after it all finished he met her in pub and ended up having sex with her. I remember the night he came back looking guilty etc but thought nothing of it. So he ended up meeting her again I found a twitter pm and it all came out. He claims he was finishing it when I found the msg (they all do) ive asked him often to try to catch him out and he's consistent. He's doing all the right things giving me passwords phoning txting so I know where he is. As soon as I found out I threw him out. I believe he wants me back. He could just have went to her but he didn't. He said he wasn't handling the cancer as well as he thought and when she txt him he felt normal then flattered and young. She called him sexy etc. I'm paranoid as he'll and don't know if I can move on from this I just keep thinking about them together. Oh and six months before my diagnosis he was txting her and admitted he was attracted to her. Can we ever recover from this we both want to but it so hard.