Dh has been away for two nights as he does every week as he is working away. I quite look forward to him coming back even though he is a sometimes stressful character to have around. Then this morning he chucks one of ds's pooey nappies (he often does this), not in a plastic bag, not even closed properly, into the bathroom bin which does not have a plastic lining. I have told him before that this really makes the bin stink but he still does it. He seems to think the bin lady is going to empty it... So I took the nappy downstairs... Sounds incredibly petty but I just find this really disrespectful... Like he is kind of saying sod you, you or anything you say does not matter.
I am almost 37 weeks pregnant and feel that I get very little in the way of any kind of support from him mentally... He comes home and tells ds a million times how much he has missed him and how wonderful he is, and I get shouted at because I say about the bin smelling if he puts a nappy in it. Sorry if this sounds incredibly childish but this then sets me off to a bad day and I don't feel like having anything to do with him or talking to him at all. He also shouted at me because I had the "nerve" to ask him to come to the bathroom so I could say something to him while I was in the shower. Apparently I should have shouted what I wanted to say through the wall without calling him over (he was not far away at the time).
I even then feel that I do not want this obnoxious person anywhere near the delivery room when baby2 is born.
Things are not always like this but often enough to make me wonder how I got together with such a stroppy person.