Does anyone have a positive story about having a passive aggressive husband?

[ilovelamp82]

After much research, we have discovered that my husband is in fact a passive aggressive. I have been doing as much reading as I can online on the subject and ordered some books but as of yet I haven't managed to find an outcome that is positive.

My husband admits that he is a passive aggressive, which I understand to be the worst bit. He has agreed to go to counselling. I have told him that so long as he is wholeheartedly commited to counselling and sorting out the problem then I will completelt support him. Anything less than this and I will not stick around.

I so want it to work though as we have 2 gorgeous boys and I want to avoid splitting up our family, but I am yet to find a case that has resulted in the husband and wife staying together.

Thanks in advance - this is a really scary time for me and I don't really have anyone to talk to in real life abojt it. I'm also pretty embarrassed.

Hi everyone i need some advice,i,ve been married over 30yrs and have 5 kids all grown up execpt one whos 15,i just found this site by accident and have been reading some blogs i ve been reading about passive agressive people and i cant believe it my husband sounds like that i just cant believe theres people like him out there,right now we have not spoke in 3 weeks and hes sleep,n on the couch i cant remember what it was over,i have been through everything u can think of their has been physical abuse but that only happened when he drank and he has,nt drank in yrs but his behiviour took it place,he is so moody u never no what way he,ll b on a day,he sulks, he always gives out about everything and if hes doing something he gets so stressed out,i have 3 kids still living with us who are 21,18 and 15 yrs old and they dont ask him to do anyrhing cause they never no what mood he,ll b in,i dont no if i,m explaning myself right i,ve never done this before but i,m fed up of living like this i,ve asked him to leave but he cant as he has no where ro go and we have no money so i,m stuck...

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Ok thankyou

Mine is exactly the same and I am struggling to find good outcomes too - did you work yours out? I want to stay with him, but it is exactly as yours, just insidious and hurtful and without any form of physical affection for 15 years, I at least know why now which is good. Is it changeable?

Can I ask, why do you want to stay with him