NC as being stalked on here by exDP.
Split from my DP a month ago, nearly 6 yrs together. Not married, no kids but we have 2 each. large house, currently up for sale, overpriced as exFW wants as much equity as he can get. I have a large lump of equity that is all mine. Both stuck in the house till we sell.
I initiated the split but he wasn't happy anyway, he told me often he wanted out he is so bitter and angry. I sold the family car, in my name but paid for jointly, he was expecting to get a couple of thousand from the sale but once finance was paid there was nothing left. Threatened me with court.
Gave me a 5 page spreadsheet of household items to discuss, sets traps for me to see if I go in his room. Walks around the house whistling wtf??? Isn't getting home till 8-8.30pm - don't know where he is. had a date at the weekend too so presume he's with a woman??
I've been shopping/cooking for him but I just can't be bothered with that so I've told him I'm not doing it anymore - now he says he's not paying his half of the mortgage and that I'm a childish, pathetic cow for refusing to cook for him.
Why should I cook his fuckin meals? He doesn't do ANYTHING in the house anymore.
Only obligation I have is to pay my share of the bills. Have no obligation to him anymore.