Advice is this moving too fast !

[Tia2005]

Ok so I put this post on a couple of days ago ::I met this guy 2 weeks ago this sat I've met him when I was out and I've met up with him 1 other time we talk on the phone everyday , he's says he loves me and wants kids with me and to marry me , he's told me a lot about himself he says he gets injections for stress and he says the doctors said he's got mental health . I just think this is moving too fast I told him that and it upset him I need advice please:::
After a lot of advice I ended things today I saw him in town and talked to him he says he does have schizophrenia and I told him things were moving to fast he's sayin we can slow things down should I give him a second chance

Well if you genuinely wish you'd nver met him then I don't really know what there is to discuss.

Unless you are a closet Drama Llama.

He told you (on your other thread) that he did not consider your relationship to be over without his agreement. That is very worrying. Relationships can only exist with both parties' consent. Any man who does not get the principle of mutual consent is horrible and probably dangerous. Please stay away x

OP what are you trying to achieve? Here and with this man?

You've started a new thread knowing full well what everyone will tell you. Stay away from this man. And now you're not even really engaging with people's concerns. What do you want from us?

And what on earth do you think is going to happen with him? You barely, barely know him, everything is screaming stay away and yet you're running towards him with open arms. This isn't even a case where it's genuinely difficult to disentangle yourself, you are willfully making your life difficult. It's staggering, staggering behaviour from a grown woman with a child.

In the kindest possible way, wake up, you don't really want him around your child and being this intense from the get go, it will end in tears, yours.

Ok OP here's the reply you want someone to say:

You're wrong, you shouldn't have ended it with him. Give him another chance. He says he'll take it slow. Get back together with him.

Seeing as you've ignored all 136 answers on your other post you might as well get back with him, you obviously want to.

But don't expect any further replies in another 2 weeks when he's trying to marry you/move in/have children bad you think it's 'a bit too soon'

Your poor daughter.

OP there are so many red flags about this man that you could make it into bunting.

I suggest staying away from this man, and getting counselling to help understand why you're even reconsidering your position.

No matter how many times you keep asking, you will get the same responses.

This is only 2 weeks in. It's very complicated and has everything going against it. Whilst I'd never dump my long term relationship, I'd never get into a deep one in these circumstances, not just to protect myself, but also my daughter.

2 weeks in and yet already too many questions and worries. Drop it before you get too emotionally involved.