hormonal or something to think about?

[flowerpotgirl12]

not sure if I'm being a hormonal nut or not (8months pregnant).

it just feels as though my dps and my relationship gas changed and not for the better recently. We've not had sex for weeks (the bump I think puts him off) so we've lost intimacy and feel as though we've drifting apart. not sure if this is usual and will go back to normal after baby is born or get worse. also feeling very unsettled and insecure, he was in a long term relationship before me (they split 4 years before we met) he told me why they split, , got kids together and their relationship is very strained, which I never understood why, I saw yesterday a text from her saying she can't forgive him for leaving her etc. which threw me as he always made out it was mostly her who ended it.

I know it has nothing to do with me but it's made me feel insecure and slightly untrusting of dp but not sure if being ridiculous or hormonal.

Do you talk to each other? You 'think' the bump puts him off but you don't seem to know for sure, for example. When you saw the 'can't forgive him' text did you have a chat about what it meant? As a general rule, I find that insecurity tends to get worse if too much is left unsaid and/or you're reduced to guessing. Ask the questions, be direct, assert yourself. Even if you don't like the answers it'll be worth it.