Finally getting it ...

[Littleblue]

No idea if anyone remembers the shitstorm I live in ... but I'm picking through it , don't bother to speak to my ( narcissistic ) mother much ... her dramas don't work anymore , my BGF's who were wrecking families , ones deleted me for not feeding her fantasy , the other respects me and doesn't try and force me to agree/support ... I'm ticking along ... largely alone . It's a strange time , no man , nor do I want one .. I feel lonely , but its like a process of maturation / evolution ... I'm alone with my self it's a strange time ... just thinking aloud really , as you were :)

I have no idea what you are talking about - but wanted to offer some anyway x I have a narcisistic mother too, i feel your pain

I'm sure you get the picture lol , thanks for the flowers xx

Hello, Littleblue! Congratulations on getting rid of your ... parasites

I'm with you on the evolution process. Somebody on here said that parts of this process are like the chrysalis stage of a butterfly. It doesn't look like anything from the outside, but there is all kinds of chemistry going on inside! And the end result makes it worthwhile.

Getting to know yourself is quite interesting, isn't it? Wishing you a long and happy relationship with You :)

Thats it in a nutshell Garlic ! :) its a funny process , not altogether a willing one , but clearly necessary ... my mothers having such a massive crisis because nothing works anymore . She's gone into wheedling needy mode , convinced I'm having some form of breakdown lol . I'm simply not interested , whereas I used to stress bigtime if she was upset with me . My friendships have been similar in dynamic , and those that are falling away are the parasitical ones , yes indeed ... strange times :)

..... and thank you ;)