Truly amazing!

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NC as my exDP is stalking me on Mumsnet. Just over 3 weeks ago he was telling me he loved me, Chrsitmas was coming and although things weren't brilliant we were ok (well maybe not!)

Tonight he is out on a date!! All over Facebook in the hope it gets back to me! I can't believe I lived with this man for 6 yrs.

Last night he gave me a 5 page spreadsheet of household items, stating who bought what, who wants it etc...what an idiot. I have to fill it in and then we can discuss it!

The house went up for sale a week ago and we haven't had any interest yet. We could still be here in 12 months time (god help me) so dividing up stuff is a bit premature I think.

This man is a mystery to me now!

He wants to control what is happening doesn't he? Was that a common theme in your marriage?

Hope you return the spreadsheet to him with 'you can whistle for it' written across in big letters... :)

Last night when I got back from my evening out, he was already in. He then announced that he had set me a trap and by going in his bedroom (this room was my room too just 3 weeks ago) I had 'set off' the trap and he knew I had been in there. Woopsy doo!!

He has gone out again for lunch, I presume with the woman he met last night. Why doesn't he channel his energies into his anger, jealousy and communication issues.

How can he contemplate meeting someone else - I just can't think of anything worse. I need time to grieve and think through what went wrong. Spend time with my DC and on myself.

This his 3rd serious failed relationship, with another semi -serious one failing before he met me.

Words fail me!

I don't quite understand the set-up. Are you still living together?

Oh yes...stuck in this nightmare until the house sells. Neither of us can afford to move out until it's sold.

I am in a separate bedroom and we have separate living spaces.

Sorry. Read again more closely. If he's talking about setting traps you've got to get him out of there. He sounds like a total nutter.

Trap ? Wtf is he on about ?
Look carefully , perhaps there is a rabbit snare or something? Does he think hes a hunter in a film or something ?

Be carefull of grass covered pits containing sharp spikes. .... they are notorious for hiding under bedroom rugs .

Joking aside hes not right is he ? ? Id be tempted to give him any furniture he wants just to get rid of him quicker .

Lol...he is! but his name is on the mortgage. I'm stuck with him and trying to make the best of it!

He is un-hinged I tell you!

Remember and include a shiney new hinge and screws in his stuff when you pack up his stuff .

You can buy hinges at b& q .

Call it a leaving gift . He gets a hinge , and you get freedom .

(Trying to make op laugh )

Laughing help you deal with stress ?

10-1 Mr Crazy Trapper is going to sabotage your house sale. He's not interested in a clean finish to this relationship he wants to twist the knife and keep hurting you with his heavily advertised dates and creepy territorial threats. He hates you.

Lol I am laughing, the things he does and says make me laugh everyday! He needs professional help otherwise the man will never have a successful relationship.

He claims to not care about this relationship breakdown and then the next minute he's asking me why I've been away for the weekend - I haven't but he overheard a phone conversation and got the complete wrong end of the stick. Why ask me things like that when he doesn't care!

I know a bit about psychology, not a lot but enough to know why people do/say things and the meaning behind them.

My stress reliever is exercise and eating healthy. I've lost 7lb in a month.

He sounds like my ex ... he used to set "traps" too . If I spoke to a friend hed accuse me of alsorts . If I visited said friend , he wait outside her house , waiting to see if I was meeting " men " there ! The gas man came one day to read the meter .... obviously this ment his " traps" were catching me in the act ... of having a friend with gas supply .

Nuttier than squirel shit .

God I've got better things to do with my life than set bloody traps!