Tell me i dont need him

[secondchances]

If I give you a list of reasons why my friends think ex is worthless & that I don't need him, can you all just add your opinions to the list & remind me what an arse he is? Many thanks.

Says he's ready for commitment but didn't really like helping me do things around the house whilst I was at work.
Didn't have a job.
Thought getting a 4x4 would be great when he cant afford it anyway!
Was lazy.
Refused to tell me when there was a problem.
Didn't like the fact I was honest with him with regards to my behaviour in the past.
Had a reputation for getting back with his ex.
Promised me he wouldn't leave me.
Then he left.
Wouldn't give us another chance when I wanted to talk about things.
When I eventually pulled the plug & said im not hanging on a string anymore he didn't want to let me go.

I know I don't need him. I know I can do better. Just tell me & add to the list if you want.

Erm, I think you've got it about covered! He sounds like a colossally immature, manipulative manchild to me. But then you know that.

You don't need him.

You definitely do not need him!

He says one thing and does another:

No job --> Wants fancy-pants car
Said would never leave --> Left
When you disengaged --> Wants you back

The one thing is is consistent about is being lazy! Does not help around the house and has no job.

On paper, he doesn't look good, does he?

I agree he sounds like you are well shot however I'd just like to point out for the next one - never ask him to 'help you out around the house'. It's not 'helping' you, it's 'doing his share of the housework'.

Bring his number up on your phone.

Now press delete.

There, done.

(Sorry, I know that's flippant, but really...you know he's not the one and he's not going to change, right?)

Classic cocklodger