I was at my sisters house yesterday with DH and DD and i was knocking at her door when around the corner came an Ex i havent seen for a few years.
He ran straight up to me threw his arms around me and shouted "jennie Baby, so good to see you"
I just said oh hello XXXX are you ok, then he said "and who,s this, your other half?" so i said yes, he patted DH on the back and shook his hand and said "please to meet you im XXXX" then i thought he,d gone.
Then i heard "Jennie Darling how many kids do you have now?"
So i told him, then i thought he,d gone and he shouted "See ya Jennie"
I was annoyed as it was obvious that i was with my partner and the fact that he just treated me as if we were good friends when we are not, we parted bitterly and thinks he can just come up to me in the street when im with DH and talk to me and put his arms around me i think is out of order.
DH was very quiet last night and i knew he was bothered by this as i would be if it was an EX of his that did this i would be furious, the thing is now ive found out that he has moved opposite my sisters house, me and my sister are in and out of each others houses as we are very close and our kids are and the woman that he,s moved in with- her son plays with mine and they are in and out of mine and her house and now i dont want my son to go there because the EX is not a good person, he is someone of dodgy character.
But what do i tell DS, DS likes playing with this boy and he is a nice boy, and why should i stop going to my sisters because he is sat outside opposite.
Any ideas or advice would be really appreciative, i have to tread carefully here as i have DH and DS feelings to consider.
TIA