My friend (a very sweet young woman who's helped me a lot in the past) came to my daughter's birthday party last year as she's very fond of my children. She said she was coming to help (more or less invited herself over to a kiddie party ) but turned up 2 hours late, wearing an extremely short skirt, beamed at DH when he walked in with a plate of food prepared for her..sat around talking to him....didnt help with kids...and proceeded to be super friendly to and loiter around my husband.
For a year before the party, I'd been confiding in her that my marriage was on the rocks as I'd discovered that my DH had been playing around and emotionally (possiblly physically too) involved with one particular girl at work, and moving in on another. She knows that I was heartbroken, staying put in a broken marriage with a bastard of a husband for various reasons ...and I thought her loyalties would lie with me, and that she'd be polite and civil towards DH but not all super friendly and spending time with him alone. My parents and this friend all trekked out into the garden to view a studio DH had built, after some time my family and I made our way back indoors whilst she stayed in that studio alone with him for about 15 minutes.
She's been attempting to meet up with me.as her own marriage is ending and.she wants to talk to me. She's about 12 years younger than me, and feels I offer her good advice. I've been avoiding her all year, but she's really bugging me. Do I tell her what I thought of her friendliness with my husband or do I ignore it because it'snonsense and I'm being overly paranoid?
Your thoughts appreciated. Please don't ask why I'm still with my husband, its another story and so long winded.
Many thanks