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Asked on a date. Should I go????

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Santaclaws · 27/12/2013 17:29

Hi All
Many of you have probably seen my previous post about my split with my ex and the end of a relationship I had with someone I met online, just before Xmas. I have been feeling very low and quite lonely since then and also feel i was treated quite badly.

Have been trying to just muddle through Xmas really and had to work a lot of it. I have been putting ,y all into work and using it as a distraction. I had made up my mind to be happy on my own, and had begun to realise I am better on my own than in a poor relationship so I was feeling a little better

Then today at work I got chatting with someone who works where I am from time to time ( or rather he got chatting to me) basically he was following me around a lot and by the end of his shift began mentioning going for a coffee sometime. Before he left he gave me a bit of paper with his number on

He seems ok and not unattractive but I've been quite badly burned lately by relationships, plus if I did meet him I wouldn't want people at work to know. So come on please help me, what should I do ? Is it wise to take a chance again and go for a drink.?

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KingRollo · 27/12/2013 22:12

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doasyouwouldbedoneby · 27/12/2013 22:12

go for a coffee there is no harm in that, it may be a nice distraction. If you like him and want to see him again keep it low key, very slowly at your pace.
After all it is just coffee not a marriage proposal Xmas Grin

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