Hi all,
I've posted a few times about my exDP leaving me halfway through November saying that I'm not the same person he fell in love with. I don't think I believe this reason, I actually think that he couldn't cope with the pressure of work stress, lack of money, a 5 month old DD and me having PND.
Following him leaving he was vile to me, angry and defensive in texts and in person and always seeming to want to pick a fight, all the while wanting to know where I was and who I was with. About two weeks ago this all came to a head, we had a HUGE row and I broke down, sobbed my heart out and told him exactly how I felt about how he was treating me, how I was struggling with my PND etc etc. And we also DTD. I'm not reading anything into that because I'm aware that sex with an ex is pretty common.
Since then though he's been super nice. He's gone out of his way to be more supportive, which I would expect and which is how he should have been all along. However, I think he's going above and beyond being supportive. He's started putting kisses on the end of his texts again, instigating contact when he doesn't need to, he's been flirty and really touchy feely with me, using affectionate terms in his texts, keeps instigating physical contact, and has been talking about future plans, next Christmas etc. He also bought me a Christmas gift which was something that I said I wanted months ago but couldn't justify buying for myself.
I'm not naive, I know that he's a dickhead, but he was my dickhead and I want to believe that there's a chance we can fix things, so whilst I'm expecting responses saying as such I also want to know what people think about his behaviour? I'm SO confused!