Delaying and wasting time - I want to move on:)

[mrsericnorthmaniwish]

Posting a lot atm, your words are always helpful especially when I have no-one here to talk my thoughts through:) I am divorcing my h, he has delayed and wasted time at every opportunity, I just wondered what the point is?? Surely it's more helpful to get things sorted move on? That's what I feel anyway, I just dislike the waiting around for him to decide and make decisions - obviously it's all about him

He's making you suffer- classic bitter tosspot behaviour. Its what nasty people do. If possible talk it through with friends and don't react, especially if there's nothing you can do practically speaking

That's how he's fighting. My ex was very controlling so when I left, all he had was delay tactics. Feign indifference to him as much as possible and rant here. If he says. "Oh yeah I'm still deciding about x" reply "oh had you not got back to be on that? I've got so much on, thinking about travelling/my new promotion/the marathon I'm running."

The divorce won't help you move on. It just consolidates the position you're in.

Thank you, I am in the hands of solicitors so no there is nothing I can actually do-that's hard. I just get very frustrated but I would never let him see that:)