And what an ordeal it was too! First off DP told me we was gonna sell the house and split the money so i could find somehwere nice for me ds and baby to live! So i lost it franctically throwing clothes into a bag, if he said its over what was the point in me staying!
MIL comes in and it all blew up, i told her i was sick to death of her interfering, going behind my back and slagging me off. She told me I was childish, a cruel mother, a bad mother and I will drive my ds away when hes older. She also sad i annoyed her last week cos i left the hot water on, what that had to do with anything though is beyond me! Her nd dp argued, me n mil argued, me n dp argued, i spent most of the night crying.
I told her that her won son is worried about his new baby coming for fear that shes gonna interfere! So her answer to that was "well i wont speak to matthew ot have anything to do with the baby then" and off she went to bed. She was so unblievablly childish it was awful, she has broke dps heart by saying she wants nothing to do with the baby, she denid spoiling my ds and going behind my back. Told i need to listen and take notice of her becasue she has years of experience, i should be there for my son and give him snakcs in between meals and drinks whenever he wants!!
I really odnt know what the matter with her is, someone has suggested shes upset and feels like im taking her son away. She threw it in my face thats she is giving us her house, i told her to shove it, not if she expected to be able to run our lives for us in return!
All in all it was a very upsetting night, nothing has been resolved because she doesnt belive she is doing wrong! I can never forgive her for what she said to me last night, Ive only been with dp for a year, she has seen Matthew a total of weekends and she thinks she knows us!
thanks for advice yesterday x x