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Advice needed please!

3 replies

Crazyoldlife · 13/12/2013 22:50

So I've left my partner and currently living with friends because we constantly argued about his slow moving divorce with ex and lots of other things. The arguments where vvv heated and he would often hit walls and himself. I am pregnant- he has been ringing saying how much he loves me but does not trust me. He says I lie a lot and he has a long list of examples. He also asks me why i did certain things in the relationship eg. Never invited him out with my friends- I genuinely did not think he'd want to come as many are not his type of people. It's so hard as I want a happy family. He's getting help for his anger from gp. Any advice?

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LivingWellNow · 14/12/2013 07:17

Stay put.

HairyGrotter · 14/12/2013 07:18

Give him a wide berth. Let him deal with his issues before letting him near you!

CogitoErgoSometimes · 14/12/2013 07:27

I would suggest, as you're describing a very aggressive and violent man, that you stay exactly where you are and then contact the police DV unit on their non-emergency number 101. Seeing a GP about anger management sounds to me like an empty promise given that he's harassing you, accusing you of lying and says he doesn't trust you. It's him you can't trust, I'm afraid, and you need the police to be aware for when it turns really nasty. You also need it on record that he is volatile and aggressive because, when your baby arrives, you do not want a man like that in sole charge of a child.

In the meantime, don't answer his calls, stay safe and make plans for an independent life. That is the only way you'll be happy.

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