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no intimacy

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outofmymind73 · 08/12/2013 15:54

ive been with my husband 10 years but since expecting our 2nd child 4 years ago we have hardly been intimate. i only came to terms with the fact he doesnt fancy me about a year ago. i feel such a mix of emotions and i have no idea what to do. he wont talk about it or acknowledge the situation. ive tried to accept a non intimate relationship but i really do miss being wanted. i dont want to break up our family but i dont want to be in a relationship where im not wanted other than to run the house deal with the kids etc. Am i being selfish? im 40

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CogitoErgoSometimes · 08/12/2013 19:15

'Do. Or do not. There is no try' :)

Yoda: The Empire Strikes Back

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outofmymind73 · 08/12/2013 19:19

I will try to talk to him again. I know the situation is untenable.

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Original poster
outofmymind73 · 08/12/2013 19:20

I will

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Lizzabadger · 08/12/2013 19:25

Look for evidence of OW.

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outofmymind73 · 08/12/2013 19:57

ok thanks

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Darkesteyes · 08/12/2013 21:13

Sorry Rosh Its just that the question always seems to get asked of women in this situation My apologies. Thanks

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