A bit of background- ExP and I separated a few months ago, but he was still in our house whilst looking for somewhere else; two DC's.
Last night he went out to see friends but couldn't confirm whether he will be back or stay out all night. At about 10pm I sent him a text asking if he can be expected back, but no reply. I locked up and went to bed. At 2:30am I received a text from him saying that he is planning g on coming back but no time specified. He was asking me to "leave the key outside", but I wasn't gonna just get up at that hour to leave the key out for him! So I went back to sleep. Slept terribly as I kept waiting for a knock on the door to let him in. Then at 7:30am I got a text from him saying that he "cant believe I've done this". That apparently I had my phone switched off and he had to sleep in the car since 4am! Well, my phone was definitely on and there was No knock on the door...
so he turns up at half 7 and heads to bed! Leaving me to sort the DC's etc. At about 9am I told him that he can't just lay there, as the workmen will be here soon (some work is being done in the house) , but he refused to get up and made out as if it's all ok. He then threw a pillow at me and shouted to leave him alone. I told him, he's being unreasonable and I started opening curtains etc. He then stormed up, shouted, pulled me by my arm and scared me to death. The oldest DC witnessed this and started crying. I automatically picked up my phone and dialled for police. This has happened before and I thought I will not tolerate him physically scaring me. The Dc's certainly don't have to see anything of that nature.
He said I was being pathetic, wasting the time of police and left.
Fast forward ... After the police had been around... he gathered his stuff and moved out. He then sent me some vile texts saying that I'm unreasonable... that it's me who needs help!? That I wasted the time of police!And that it's basically all my fault! At no point he acknowledged to have been a dick to scare me and DC's. Or the fact that he was out all night...
I feel sick. I mean, surely I did the right thing to ring the police??