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Annoyed, need to vent before I say something I regret!

8 replies

galaxydefender82 · 05/12/2013 12:38

So, my DP fell out with her best friend a few months ago, they have known each other since school and are extremely close.

They have recently made up again and I appear to have been dropped like a hot potato because her friend is going through a little relationship problem.

I have broken my leg and feel sorry for myself, she's cancelled the last 3 offers to come over and see me.

AIBU?

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HECTheHeraldAngelsSing · 05/12/2013 12:50

Does DP mean your partner?
When is the last time you saw them?

AndTheBandPlayedOn · 05/12/2013 13:10

Sorry you broke your leg. [Thanks]
Well, hate to say it, but it crosses my mind that if they have been so close for so long and the other is having relationship problems, is it possible that your DP is thinking of leaving you and hooking up with her? I sincerely hope not, especially when you have suffered a serious injury. Sad That would leave the realm of rudeness and jump both feet squarely into being mean. Angry

AndTheBandPlayedOn · 05/12/2013 13:10
Thanks
galaxydefender82 · 05/12/2013 13:16

No, my partner is a gay female and her friend is a gay man, think I'm just being narky today because of the pain. Last time I saw her was Monday. Not too bad I guess

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SqueakyCleanLibertine · 05/12/2013 13:20

Ok, so you've asked her over every day since you saw her? Maybe just leave her to it for a few days?

HECTheHeraldAngelsSing · 05/12/2013 13:31

I don't think there's anything wrong with telling her that you are feeling a bit sorry for yourself atm and would appreciate a bit of tlc. Doesn't mean that she has to drop everything to dance attendance 24/7, but a bit of consideration for the fact you're injured, fed up and maybe ?? a bit lonely? wouldn't go amiss.

Is she calling you to chat? or texting to see if you're ok?

galaxydefender82 · 05/12/2013 13:45

She had offered and made promises to come over and help me with household things, things I could have arranged for someone else to so. But yes, I'm probably being dramatic!

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SqueakyCleanLibertine · 05/12/2013 14:33

The timing is crap though, have you got other people to keep you company and help out a bit?

It's not on for her to let you down when you need her if she said she'd be there also.

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