Worn out and worried

[Worndownandtired]

I'm exhausted - physically and emotionally. All we seem to do recently is argue over little things, they are never big rows just digs and lots of avoidance.
I attempted to explain how I felt earlier and it was disregarded totally, I'm made out to be yhe bad one when I wasn't trying to be a pain just explain how I felt.
I find myself cross over little things now, perhaps his selfishness is just how I perceive his actions rather than selfishness if that makes sense.

Either way i feel drained

I didn't want to leave your post unanswered. You haven't given much detail but can you simply take a break? Do you have children? Can you get away for a few days? Have you thought about or discussed relationship therapy? It sounds like a communication issue which relationship therapy could really help with. It is so hard when you don't feel heard.

Thank you for the reply! Taking a break isn't an option really as have several young DC however after writing the above post I tried discussing it again with better results.

Thanks again for replying it's nice not to feel alone x

Several young DC's is exhausting and when communication breaks down it is easy for resentments to build up I think but probably not the real issue. Do you just need more support from him at the moment?