hello
I'm new to mums net, & I needed to off load some how, just hope it helps me.
I have been with my partner of three years, we have a 7 month old baby boy who is happy and beautiful. He is 30 years old ten years older than me, But our relationship couldn't get Any worse.
He is just always busy he has two previous children which he was in a relationship for 5 years which ended badly, he still sees his children once a week. He gives in to the two other children and just gives them what they want when they want, same with their mother.
My partner is a mummy's boy at 30 years old, does what she wants when she wants it. We live together but he still has belongings at his mothers house. I cannot trust him, he has a serious gambling problem, which makes me trust him less, because he lies. And he has a erg addictive personality. When he goes out to a club or bar he turns his phone off because apparently I pester him and call him too much, and doesn come back he goes to his mums or comes back later than he said he would with the excuse I rang him too much or he gt too drink or he was enjoying himself too much.
I don't work at the moment and am reliant on him, I want to go back to work but he said he can't look after the baby because of work commitments. I feel stuck trapped my confidence has gone and I'm always crying for help inside I just don't no what to do.. Please help????
thanks
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