phone bother

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shit. oh shit.
I was trying to access my DH work phone
I'm bothered he keeps checking it at weekends and only recently.
but I have attempted too may times passcode and now there is a message telling me to log in to the email.:(
has anyone got a samsung will message still be there or will it go back to screen save? I know I should not snoop but I was thinking about what someone said in my last post.

I don't want to freak you out - but after I found out about an affair I did the same to DXHs phone. It's not fixable to the best of my knowledge. He'll have to reset it. Maybe best to start thinking about how to explain your worries...

It might be for the best that they surface - if you're worried and checking up on him it might be worth talking about.

yes thank you for your message. I looked again later and it had gone back to normal screen save thank goodness.
We have had a rocky patch for nearly a year now, just lots of stresses.
He know's what my concerns are, my insecurities, but says it is my problem not his.
he won't go to counselling but will not reassure me I don't have anything to worry about either.

He's right in that it's your problem.
If you don't trust him, why are you with him?

He doesn't seem very open, though. I wouln't want my partner snooping, but he'd probably know my passcodes. Why don't you know his?
This would make me distrust him, yes.

he has asked me exactly the same.
apart from the rocky patch I couldn't see myself with anyone else.
he had an intense on line 'friendship' with a colleague last year until I told her to fuck off.
he said it was innocent but don't they all.
even if it was an innocent friendship
she was getting the wrong idea
she said she missed speaking with him which I saw public online media site.
she's moved on now thank God.
I am getting better with my insecurities
but I still don't know why he feels the need to have his work phone on all weekend.