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How can I leave?

4 replies

AugustaCarp · 30/11/2013 00:31

I have no family. I live in London, so have no money. Dd is 13m. I'm basically stuck for a long while, aren't i? I love him, I don't think he loves me.

OP posts:
Unlikelyamazonian · 30/11/2013 01:44

There is always a way to leave. What's going on op?

SomePeopleAreIdiots · 30/11/2013 01:51

Agree, you aren't stuck forever, there will be a way if things are bad.

What about him leaving?

MeMySonAndI · 30/11/2013 02:54

Ok, if you love him and he has not left yet chances are that you both are just struggling to find some time to keep your relationship going now you have a child.

Before thinking on how to leave, think about how this situation can be sorted. Relate? allocating some time to yourselves on your own? sharing the house chores so you are not too tired?

You my feel he doesn't love you anymore, he may think you are so busy with the baby you are not bothered about him anymore. it is incredibly common when you have a young child, but you need to act soon to avoid such feelings to take over your relationship.

CogitoErgoSometimes · 30/11/2013 07:06

Please don't be resigned to the idea of having to stick around for the sake of money. There are always options and agencies/individuals willing to help. When you say you don't think he loves you, what makes you say that?

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