Ex and I split 2 years ago, we were only together for 6 months. No dc of our own, but we each have dc from previous rships.
We have had contact on and off since our split, we have both dated other people but in between this have remained close. He wanted to get back together a while ago but for various reasons I said no. He began seeing someone else, contact stopped again.
He then got back in touch last month. They'd split, I was single and we began talking again. 2 weeks ago, I went to his and we slept together. I really like him, but I can't tell how he feels and have always felt 'messed around' by him even when we were in a rship. I can't tell if this is due to my own insecurities or if he just isn't that 'into' me (he'd always assure me he was but I felt his actions didn't reflect that).
Anyway since sleeping together, he's text every few days, just general 'how are you', couple more texts then nothing for a few more days. No more mention of meeting. Although I'm on contraception, I needed to take the morning after pill, he didn't contact me on the day I had to take it, instead I got a text 2 days later asking how I was.
I don't really know why I'm posting. I guess I want to know how I can tell if he's genuinely interested and it's my insecurities making me think otherwise or if my instinct is right. If I asked him, I know he'd just say he was interested but continue as he is.