big disappointment

[iftimeisallIhave]

I contacted some agency for help How to deal with this what happened to me and my family

Because I ve ask so many questions
Why did that happen Y Y Y

They suggested I should have ask the person who is responsible for all the hurt

So finally I ve got the CURRAGE to do it
Sended a few texts asking why why why

And in response

The person accused me of
Abusing him
Talking "crazy shiet"
Denying all

I am so terribly disappointed by it
I did know that the person won't be able to admit
Guilt
But being accused by that person of abuse
Because I dared to ask for the true is an issue for me

Am I wrong??

Because at the moment I just want to laugh
(Sarcasm)

And just to clarify the situation
I am not blaming the agency for advising me to ask
The person why all that harm

Because I wanted to do it anyway
But the result is truly shocking for me

I send a few texts the only bad word was
A MONSTER

Did I abused him in any way asking for CURRAGE and true? ???

Oh is this world going in to the wrong direction? ??

Im not sure I understand what you mean, but did you contact someone who had abused you and they turned it back on you?

If thats the case then its really hard for you, I`m sorry. It seems they obviously are not going to admit guilt to you, but they will hurt you even more. I dont know what to suggest, sounds really awful for you x

I don't know what happened to you and your family or who the agency was that advised you to contact this person asking 'why why why'. But if this person has harmed or hurt you in some way and you knew they were unable to admit to anything then it was always a long-shot to expect a friendly reception. Turning things back on a victim and accusing them of the same crime is unfortunately very common. The world is not going in the wrong direction but sadly, there are some very bad individuals in it.

It sounds as though it took a lot to make that contact. Sorry it didn't go well but maybe it was enough to just articulate the problem, even if you didn't get a satisfactory answer

Yes I know

The contact is constant because of circumstances
But I thought that maybe once for all I would get some
Explanations

But it worked the wrong way

Are you able to say more about who this person is, what they did and why you have to be in constant contact

Just an ex
Kids involved

I ask for true because I need closure
And he text back accusing me that I had abuse him with my text and crazy shiet

There is no longer a point to hide the true from me anymore the damages have such big impact on me and my family
But he twisted all once again
Like one step noticed he hurt me again

Twisted it
Thank you anyway for your help

When someone is abusive or a bully the one thing they particularly love is knowing that they have hurt their victim. Unlike normal people they gain strength and derive pleasure knowing someone is in pain. By asking for closure and the truth it exposes a bit of soft belly into which they will instantly stick the knife.

If the damage this person has caused has impacted very badly on your family (are we talking violence?) then you don't have to maintain contact.

Yes I know
No he
Was violent in mental verbal and sexual way
A lot of humiliation
But no he didn't punch me
Well ok I give him occasion once again but like I said it was suggestion to ask

Were the police involved when you were subjected to sexual violence? Is that the thing you wanted him to admit?