I have a similar experience with my mother.Every time we see her my 2 year old says "Nanny sweets". And lo and behold she has sweets I've tried to tell mum that it really isn't good for her teeth and I also don't want my girl to think that nanny is only there for sweets. I also have a problem with unfairness with the other grandparents in as much as they give more to my sister in laws children than my own, I know that it shouldn't really matter but she always got what she wanted as a child and my hubby didn't, history is just repeating itself.