am I deluded?

[complicitybirds]

I am aware that this is ridiculous and I am in fact a grown up but I just want some totally impartial feedback.

Twice I have been asked for a drink by a man I very much like (but not a big deal just as both heading yhe sane way kind of thing. Not pre arranged) we are friends. Second time both quite drunk. Both single. I think I made it quite obvious I wad interested (but maybe deluding myself).

If he had asked me back to his after I would have jumped at the chance but he didn't. He is not interested is he? And also I should get a grip.

I don't know, we need more information. are you both single? has he indicated he likes you? just because a man doesn't want to instantly jump in your knickers, especially when you're both quite drunk doesnt mean hes not interested.. do you have much self worth? you dont sound like you do.

How far apart were these couple of occasions? Just because he didn't jump at the chance of more it doesn't mean he isn't interested. Maybe he is just a decent respectful guy? Although after a couple of drinks outings I would have thought he would ask you out properly if he was interested unless he is really shy.

many years ago, I met an old school friend, I got drunk, he didn't. He walked me home, I gave out plenty of signals etc. He did nothing.

Felt foolish the following day. Saw him again a few days later and asked him why he didn't do anything, he said it was because I was drunk and although he wanted to, it wouldn't be right. We did get together for a number of years, when I was sober

If he is decent and likes you, he will wait until you are sober and in the right frame of mind.

About amonth apart. Self worth, in most things yes but not this area. Single after very long term rship and I feel old and unsexy.

I just thought I would know if he was interested or not.

How long have you been single complicity? maybe you need to be alone for a while and learn to love yourself first before you engage in relationships with anyone else.