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Lost and lonely

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Friendlyduck · 19/11/2013 17:56

Name changed but here goes. I love DH very much and we have been together 15 years, the last year has been awful due to family bereavement, illnesses and stresses at work. He has become quiet and withdrawn.

He has told me that he feels empty inside and that he does not know if he can ever feel the same about us again, and does not even know if he still loves me.

He has suffered with depression in the past and I am almost certain there is nobody else.

Last night it all came to a head and I asked him how long I was expected to wait for him to decide if he wanted to be here and told him I thought he was being unfair. Many tears from both of us but it didn't get us anywhere.

I am lost and lonely. I miss the man I fell in love with and feel horrible about myself, wondering why he doesn't have any emotional attachment anymore.

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Andy1964 · 19/11/2013 18:01

Get to the doctors, arrange some councelling.
This sounds like the horrible depression taking hold again.

Please, don't ignore or fight it. Get it sorted.

Friendlyduck · 19/11/2013 18:06

Thank you Andy. He is just not willing to admit it at the moment.

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