Having a DH who is also a dog hater, and me a dog lover, and having left him when he said he could no longer live with my puppy, well, Precious, I can't see that your relationship will last you actually having a dog in the house. I understand your frustration, really i do.
However, I guess your DH cannot help how he feels. Do you feel repelled by anything? Because that is possibly how he feels. I don't suppose he would knowingly hurt you like this, and would change how he feels if he could -but if he really hates them, what can he do? Could you try to see it his way? If my DH told me he wanted to bring a colony of cockroaches into the house, he's clean up after them and he promises they won't escape -I wouldn't like it.
Just because you (and I) love and want a dog, it doesn't mean everyone else shares the love. Anyway, you know that, and I'm not being patronising because in many respects I totally understand how you feel.
You will just need to get the dog love elsewhere. There is no substitute, no cat, fish or canary will do instead. (I tried a house rabbit, but that too caused problems. My DH just doesn't like any animal. But house rabbits can be nice, but their recall is crap when you take them for a walk in the park, I have to admit.)
Precious. Find other outlets. Try to forgive him and put yourself in his shoes. You cannot change him and he cannot change how he feels. Look on the bright side -you might outlive him by enough years to enjoy a nice canine friend. X