Dh has just- gone!

[SlightlyFamiliarPeachyClair]

Why can't men just cope?

Went out to buy nappies, car key broke (I asked him to get another 2 weeks ago), they couldn't cut me another one. Caught bus back after ringing DH, he was angry at me. Got here and he ahs gone.

At first I thought he ahd cycled off to collect DS3, but nope- hidden in the corner of the shed was the bike seat. had I been late on the bus, DS3 wuld have been abandoned at the CM's (she ran him home for me)

he has no money, depression, no bank card (in car) and a bad temper. he left his telephone also, and he has no friends for fifty miles.

I am in a right state! Last time he did this he tried a sucicide bid.

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So sorry peachyclair. I hope he comes back soon. I stormed out once. I came back.

lord, peachy, what a situation.

I hope he's ok. Hope you are too hun.

sorry to hear this Peachy not reallu sure what to suggest, leave it an hr or so & see if he returns then try & think of a plan

Hope he shows up safe and sound asap, peachy. xx

He has taken a house key, which does mean that he can get in when I go over the school, but also that I can't lock up

And frankly I'd rather lock up and have some control over his comings and goings. He KNOWS how badly this sort of behaviour affects me.

Oh no! I am sure he will be back when he has calmed down, but how awful for you in the meantime.

My dad used to do this a lot It was horrible horrible, but he always came back.

Is he getting help for his depression???

Thinking of you

oh Peachy.....try not to worry - easier said than done I know - hope all is resolved soon.

Oh poor you.
I know you must be out of your mind with worry, but I am sure he will come back soon.x

oh mate, how awful for you, scary, annoying, upsetting.
Your hearet must be pumping so hard.
Hope he appears soon.

Peachy, hope he's back soon.
has he any family to go and see?
Thinking of you [[[[[[[hugz]]]]]]

Oh Peachy - hope he's just gone to clear his head and turns up soon.

I hope he turns up soon..I know how you feel, although I've been the one running off..on the bright side he hasn't got the car and if he has taken a key he expects to come back soon, I've no doubt.

He's back

Can't work out why I am stressed, thinks I have 'isues' over last time (ewr yeah, waiitng whilst Police chased up and down motorways looking for you does that to a person)

but at least he is safe

thank you

Thank the gods for that Peachy. (HUG) for you

so glad to hear it peachy - men - they're much harder work than children aren't they

Glad he is back, peachy.

he's been threatened with no camping

But I'll still go

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Glad all is well, peachy.

From a bloke's point of view. We tend to think quite selfishly, I think. Women, as you usually are more involved in children's care, so get used to thinking about how your actions have a knock on effect. Men, well often the fact that we work and earn the bulk of the money is where we think our responsibilities end. I think more men should be SAHDs for a year, it really does alter the way you think.

Glad he's back. Give him a slap.

He WAS a SAHD for a while! But I think you're r ight, i think he has got used to me running around after him a bit- AND bringing in cash (albeit student grants and pitiful mentoring pay)

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