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My AH has been a total A... :-(

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sb34 · 24/02/2004 00:03

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sb34 · 24/02/2004 22:35

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marthamoo · 24/02/2004 22:36

Sb, have you been watching that "Life Begins" with Caroline Quentin? The dh in that is an ah too and I watched it last night and found myself thinking of you.

Chinchilla · 24/02/2004 22:37

Don't worry - you will still be the one he kisses goodnight and tells his troubles to. My ds is a total monkey too, but charming with it. I guess that all you can do is give him all the love he needs, and be there for him. That's all aqnyone could ever ask of you. Ultimately, it's you he will look back on with love, not your AH. And your SH will have to live with that for the rest of his life.

Chinchilla · 24/02/2004 22:38

Meant AH, not SH, although that shortening could also be relevant!

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sb34 · 24/02/2004 22:41

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Chinchilla · 24/02/2004 22:48

I'm all emotional tonight, and have no idea why. Also weeing alot, tingly boobs and period type pains, although only half-way through cycle. I wish there was a chance that I could be pg... well, there is, but it is so miniscule that I would have more chance of winning the lottery! Anyway, SB, you sound like you have a great relationship with your ds, so don't beat yourself up with 'if only' etc. You're doing great (not meant patronisingly BTW).

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sb34 · 24/02/2004 22:51

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Chinchilla · 24/02/2004 22:55

It is a win-lose scenario. Either dh is happy, or I am. The only trouble is that either way, the other one is NOT happy. So we might split up because I have another baby and it puts a strain on our already stretched marriage, or we split up because I want another baby and leave him! OR, I accept the situation and move on...hmmm??

Anyway, thanks for feeling sorry for me. It helps to have people to moan to! It doesn't stop me appreciating the huge problems that others are facing, and trying to be there for them. Glad you seem much happier lately.

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sb34 · 24/02/2004 23:01

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sb34 · 26/02/2004 16:18

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Twinkie · 26/02/2004 16:21

Honey I think there are guidelines as to how quickly you have to be seen - can you check somewhere - does anyone know???

Doesn't he have private healthcare at work - you must still be on it?? (God he may actually come in handy?!!)

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sb34 · 26/02/2004 16:31

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Codandchips · 26/02/2004 16:43

wots an ah?

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sb34 · 26/02/2004 16:47

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marthamoo · 26/02/2004 17:09

Sb, I can't believe you are still waiting to be seen. No, that's a lie, dh is NHS and I can well believe it. Can you ask your GP to chase this up? It is too long to wait - it's going to be hanging over you for your party now

Btw, Life Begins is Monday, ITV, 9pm. you've missed two but you could pick it up, no prob.

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sb34 · 26/02/2004 17:14

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