Really worried

[mummytasha11]

Hi everyone

Split up with my ex in March since then I have been getting into some states and inviting men back to my flat - I know it's bad and I need to stop! This weekend I had someone back and we had a ons but he asked for my number and i gave it to him anyway since the weekend he has been really keen and been sending me text messages and wanting to call me etc..I have been politely replying then tonight I have sent him a message asking him to back off (still not completely over my ex and do not want to be getting serious with anyone as I'm not in the right place) and he has bombarded me with messages and won't leave me alone - the thing is I am quite worried he is going to turn up at my door because he ovb knows where I live

I do have a ds but he is at his dads obviously when I am bringing people back. I just get so drunk I end up inviting them back most of the time not remembering anything...I know I need to sort myself out.

Nothing from him today so hopefully that's the end of that.

I am sorry mummy but you sound very young and in need of some councelling. You are putting yourself at risk by bringing back strange men whilst out of your face. You need to get back some self respect and build a new life for you and DS. These ONS will only deepen your lack of self worth.

I am 26 so not that young - have been considering counselling...not really sure how to go about it though?

Thank you for all your advice

Darling 26 is young to me Re counselling, go to GP for a referral. In the meantime maybe try and lay of the booze so as not to get into these situations.

26 is young to me as well Blossom(My dcs are older than that!) You can either look at BACP website for counsellors in your area or a gp referral but that may be very limited.