getting me back

[kelly21]

i am 30 weeks pregnant and just got out of an awful relationship wish it was that simple he has a habit of turning up wanting me back which sets me back it made my depression worse ( got to the point were i wasnt even washing thinking whats the point and doing things when i have noone in reality i have much more i have an amazing 4 year old and an amazing mum and dad who love my daugher who do all the special accasions and days out with us i really need to stary aprestiaring what i have got sorry for the long post just really use this website as a public diary it helps :) what little things do you do to make yourself feel better i washed my hair put some makeup on and met my sistet for a coffee ( may seem pathetic but took alot for me )

Dear Kelly,

I'm glad you've posted here, it will help you stay strong. I hope some more knowledgeable Mumsnetters than me turn up soon. You're definitely on the right track doing the little things that remind you that you're caring for yourself - hair, make-up - and even better that you've managed to get out and have some social contact. I'm glad you managed to meet up with your sister for coffee. My dear sister helps keep me sane :) I've just come out of a horrible relationship too, and it helped me posting here. It's hard enough to cope with these things without being pregnant as well - you're brilliant to be surviving, well done you. If he keeps turning up when you've told him not to, you could get the police involved, if you warn him and he does it again? Tell us what a twat he is if it helps you feel better.

I'm going to echo the advice to keep this person away from your, cut all contact and call the police if he keeps turning up. If you're depressed, do talk to you GP and Health Visitor rather than thinking you have to solider on. I'm glad you've got your family close. They sound lovely.

When I'm down I turn to food... but rather than comfort eat sacks of crisps I make lovely cakes and things for other people and invite them over to eat them with me :) Good company and good food. Can't beat it. Good luck