Will I just look stupid/weird?

[MomentForLife]

Ok so, I'm a single Mum and since being on my own a lot has changed and I had a tough time. Left my place of work,retrained, different friends etc.

Recently I've been thinking about a guy I used to know and work with before. I still speak to an old colleague so maybe that's what got me thinking.

Anyway I used to get on really well with him and we were flirty but nothing ever happened. Will I look weird if I contact him as its been several years. I always meant to stay in touch but life got in the way.

I feel a bit childish even posting this. Would I seem really weird or stupid to make contact out of the blue?

[CogitoErgoSometimes]

Yes I'd have welcomed contact. I'd have been flattered. Probably would have stayed with the idiot as it happened, might have ended up saying 'thanks but no thanks' but it would have been nice to be given the choice.

[cloudskitchen]

Cognito you made me laugh Whilst I'm not sure I entirely share the view that they are "fair game" I guess they are up to a point. I suppose it's up to op if she wants to discover what point he's at

[Blondeorbrunette]

I have one if those too cog. If he called me now I wouldn't stop to put my coat on!

[MomentForLife]

Hi, no idea how serious it is but it doesn't matter to me, wouldn't go there!

I've given myself closure and I don't want to turn into a stalker so that's enough for me.lol