So a few weeks ago I posted about whether or not I was right in wanting to leave my husband. I got some good replies which allowed me to feel stronger about my decision. I was set to go to solicitors unfortunately dd got chicken pox so I had to cancel and have rebooked for next week. Dh is continuing like nothing is wrong and as if I had not told him I want to leave (although he is making an effort- too little too late). I am so unhappy with the situation that I am making myself ill. I am so worried about upsetting dh and dc and rest of the family that it is destroying me. I know it should be easy to just leave or get him to go but knowing he doesnt want it to end means I know he is going to make it really hard for me. I planned on leaving after xmas to make it easier on us all ( ds has birthday end nov and dd boxing day) but I dont know if I can continue being unhappy for that long. Any advice?